We have met the enemy...

One of the ways to tone down the rhetoric and engage in more civil discussion is to resist the temptation to set up an "us" vs. "them" scenario. In the "us" vs. "them" scenarios, "us" becomes the good guys and "them" are the bad guys with "good" and "bad" being seen in absolute, total terms. In other words, "we" (to change the terminology) can see only "good" in our positions while seeing only "bad" in "them". Not only does this attitude betrays a lack of understanding of the pervasive nature of sin (defined as "self-worship") that infects all of us, penetrating to every fiber of our being, but it sets up a "playing field" where no one will even listen to the "other side" because "they" have already been written off. If there is to be robust, civil discussion and debate about crucial issues, we need to resist the "us" vs. "them" mentality that ends conversations before they can even begin.

Take the time to check the facts

In a "15 second sound-bite" world, it's important to slow down and take some time to evaluate the factual accuracy of what comes our way. Just because a rumor "goes viral" via e-mail does not make it true. Just because a prominent figure says something on radio or TV does not make it true. Just because an organization with which we may agree makes a statement does not necessarily make it true. Jesus said, "You shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free." Truth should be our first pursuit, even if it is uncomfortable for us or if it cuts across previously held views. There are a number of web sites devoted to "fact-checking". Find them and take some time to pursue the truth.

Another modest proposal...embrace the light.

It isn't enough to reject the shrill voices that sow anger and mistrust. There must be a replacement of the darkness with the light of those who take the time and care to frame issues in such a way as to promote honest and healthy dialogue and debate. Because of my policy in this blog of not "naming names", I will not give recommendations as to those voices in print and on the airways that do us all a great service by discussing the issues respectfully rather than making themselves the issues by attacking those who have differing views. Those voices of moderation and healthy debate are "out there". Look for them and give careful attention to both their tone and content. If we fill our minds with good things, we will not hunger for the bad.

A Modest Proposal: Just say 'no'

A starting point toward an atmosphere of more civil discussion is to refuse to feed our minds the vitriol of labeling, name-calling, and unfair generalization. We need to "unplug" from all who demean, vilify, and demonize fellow humans beings. We recognize those voices that pander to our prejudices and fears and if those voices are to give way in the public discourse to civil discussion, it will be up to us to "turn them off" and refuse to give them time and attention. It matters not whether we agree philosophically with those shrill voices; if civility is to be restored, it will start with a rejection of the voices that sow fear, mistrust, hate, and discord.

Yet another blog...

This blog is based on Proverbs 15:1..."A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." For some time, I've watched with alarm as the level of civil discussion in American society has become ever more uncivil, to the point where we have become a schismatic, fragmented society described as being embroiled in "culture wars". My purpose is simple: To encourage all who read these posts to reject angry rhetoric, listen to the point of hearing, and build bridges rather than walls. To that end, I'll be posting ideas and suggestions that hopefully will lead us into greater civility. After all..."civil" is a root of "civilization".

This blog is not intended as a presentation of my particular views on any issue, but rather is a call for reasoned and reasonable discussion and debate on religious, political, and social issues.

What I write represents only my thinking as a committed follower of Jesus Christ. The thoughts, ideas, and opinions are mine alone and in no way represent my church or employers.

Because too much of the (un)civil discourse in American life centers around personalities rather than respectful discussion of the issues, I will not mention names either approvingly or disapprovingly.

I'll be updating this blog periodically only when I feel that there is something of value to add that will help us move in the direction of civility in our discussions. I make no promises about a "schedule" of posting.

Hope you enjoy.